Monday, September 26, 2016
Love Lounge: On NOT Chasing...
It all goes on for awhile, and before you know it, everything just becomes...so...boring.
There. I said it. Everything just morphs into this back-and-forth state of bland, boring nothingness, if you know what I mean.
And don't even get me started on the double standard of the whole situation. Have you ever noticed how we're much quicker to react positively when the guy is the one doing the chasing? We think it's valiant and romantic and all knight in shining armor-y. Here's a guy going after the woman he loves, right? But if the woman is the one partaking in a passionate pursuit? Well, she's just clingy and desperate, isn't she? I mean, it's practically on par with Fatal Attraction here.
I'm not going anywhere. I'm staying right where I am. If you ask me, that's the most romantic thing of all.
What are your thoughts on The Chase, friends?? Is it useless? A sign of immaturity?? A wonderful way to make a sweeping romantic gesture?? Let's chat, shall we??? xoxo
P.S. Are you addicted to the chase?
[Photo via We Heart It]