tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post3589879981542352893..comments2023-11-16T03:37:52.470-06:00Comments on So about what I said...: Love Lounge: The curse of unrequited love...?Melissa Blakehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09975477573895818097noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-82322359792009952952014-11-13T17:12:13.518-06:002014-11-13T17:12:13.518-06:00Awww, thanks so much, r.franze!!Awww, thanks so much, r.franze!!Melissa Blakehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09975477573895818097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-15211434846553997312014-11-11T21:10:07.222-06:002014-11-11T21:10:07.222-06:00well I mean you can still get your heart broken.. ...well I mean you can still get your heart broken.. because they dont love you back and that would hurt more seeing as the person is not being desired!Also you might just end up in love with the idea of that person and not who they actually are. Which would suck more, since you are in love with someone who doesn't really exist the same way you see them in your mind.<br /><br />Even though unrequited loves are 'safe' and 'easy' its because its non existent. Sometimes the awkward first dates are good for the experience and sometimes its not even awkward and you know its a match. Yes there is no risk of getting your heart broken because there is no risk of having your heart loved. <br /><br />Its better to love someone and have bad times, but at least you get to experience the good times too, not just stalking them on facebook. Love is so much more than day dreams. <br /><br />I would stop focusing on not being able to find someone, because you seem like a really smart woman who would be able to get a great guy but wont stop looking at the unrequited loves to find the true ones.<br /><br />- two girls who have been therer.franzehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00491550104383069936noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-71468385038090624802014-11-11T11:15:01.598-06:002014-11-11T11:15:01.598-06:00Jenny, this is exactly what i'm thinking, and ...Jenny, this is exactly what i'm thinking, and i love your analogies...cake without the calories, veggies without the nutrition. <br /><br />Glad to hear you're so happy! :)Melissa Blakehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09975477573895818097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-75186139021240581412014-11-11T08:48:34.341-06:002014-11-11T08:48:34.341-06:00When I was young, I was like you...always caught u...When I was young, I was like you...always caught up in unrequited love. Now I've been in a love relationship for almost twenty years and yeah...unrequited love is safe. It's easy. It's the cake without all the calories and the veggies without the nutrition. It's anemic; one person's love is just never enough. It really does take two (or more, in some cases!) <br />It's a choice...one can embrace the joys of unrequited love and let go of the negatives or one can reject it as an option and go for requited love...which may look nothing like you expected it to and might be just exactly what you thought...and you won't know till you get there.<br />Both choices are valid ones; it's up to you to decide what will make you happiest in the long run.<br />Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16580843517155318041noreply@blogger.com