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Call me cynical, but I'm sure that's the main problem I'll be facing in the future.disabled girl anonnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-1692450335446161202012-10-03T15:47:42.689-05:002012-10-03T15:47:42.689-05:00That's awesome, Anonymous -- and i love what y...That's awesome, Anonymous -- and i love what you say about a beautiful character changing perception! SO TRUE!Melissa Blakehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09975477573895818097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-21248630564408477302012-10-03T14:51:47.149-05:002012-10-03T14:51:47.149-05:00I met my boyfriend and (I know it sounds cliché) s...I met my boyfriend and (I know it sounds cliché) soulmate on the internet for example... I usually meet men in the real world, and it was not intentionally, not a dating page or something, but anyway... <br />I fell in love with him before I knew how he looked like. He was a little bit awkward about sending pictures. I was talking for months to a person I didn't really know how he looked like, and although I of course was curious, it didn't matter, because I knew that I have met someone so incredibly special, and I didn't care anymore.<br />Of course I do know now how he looks, and he .... how do I say it... well, if I had just seen him as a stranger on the street, i would have said, "not my type"..., but now, for me he honestly is the most handsome man in the world. <br /><br />Im not saying, that not sending pictures was a good thing of him to do (i would have anyway fallen in love....), but just as an example, that a beautiful character changes perception, and that these things really happen.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-90886974826076314852012-10-03T08:53:31.866-05:002012-10-03T08:53:31.866-05:00I met my husband on a company-sponsored bowling le...I met my husband on a company-sponsored bowling league. My sister met her husband taking a night class at a community college. My other sister met her husband volunteering on a political campaign. I was just curious as to where you might cross paths with someone worth getting to know. I am a new reader, so I'm wondering where do you work and what do you enjoy doing socially? I know when gals get to be a certain age, it's much harder to meet eligible men. I know you have a disability. Do you on-line date at all? That would be so awesome for you. I know of many people who have met their "soulmates" thru the internet. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-82670723251030683782012-10-02T18:27:44.330-05:002012-10-02T18:27:44.330-05:00Thanks, friends, for all these sweet comments! xox...Thanks, friends, for all these sweet comments! xoxoMelissa Blakehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09975477573895818097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-3796966568568768692012-10-02T18:25:47.833-05:002012-10-02T18:25:47.833-05:00Wow my jaw dropped when I read that. That person m...Wow my jaw dropped when I read that. That person must be a very sad soul. <br />You and all will find love. It is there.. the timing will be right and no matter how hard it is to wait.. it will be worth it. <br />You are obviously a beautiful person.. in body sound and mind. The superficial asshole that wrote that is the one that will end up alone. Laura Bearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13204949409014092573noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-62058408704380855602012-10-02T18:25:03.877-05:002012-10-02T18:25:03.877-05:00I'm sorry, Anon. Remember that just because yo...I'm sorry, Anon. Remember that just because you don't have love in your life right now doesn't mean you don't deserve it. *Hugs*Melissa Blakehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09975477573895818097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-68836654932737932242012-10-02T18:05:02.983-05:002012-10-02T18:05:02.983-05:00Laura, my comment was not meant like that. I don&#...Laura, my comment was not meant like that. I don't have love, I wish that I did, and i am sad it may not happen for me. My comment was one of empathy, not scorn.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-15652117059096251342012-10-02T16:02:00.940-05:002012-10-02T16:02:00.940-05:00To the Anonymous at 12:37. You're right. Roman...To the Anonymous at 12:37. You're right. Romantic love is not a given. For any of us. That's why we're so protective of it and fascinated by it. And while we can't say definitively someone will find love, we also can't say they won't. I can't promise Melissa she'll get married any more than she can promise me my marriage will last. But someone who actually feels as though they can give someone a once over and announce they'll never be loved? That person has some very serious self-esteem issues and they're not going to fix them by trolling blogs.Lauranoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-24230959123181568802012-10-02T14:30:11.826-05:002012-10-02T14:30:11.826-05:00What an awful comment! You are so right though, no...What an awful comment! You are so right though, no one needs to be in a romantic relationship to be loved. And it's crazy that people think that way.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10385787689075231229noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-25274408034211835882012-10-02T12:37:49.023-05:002012-10-02T12:37:49.023-05:00Love is not a right. Not everybody receives it. It...Love is not a right. Not everybody receives it. It is not a basic occurence. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-85423260717149953852012-10-02T12:23:26.423-05:002012-10-02T12:23:26.423-05:00I totally agree with Jenny from Scottland! How sha...I totally agree with Jenny from Scottland! How shallow is love that's based on looks and attractiveness? Someone who doesn't look further is to pitty and not even worth it. I truely believe that a person can become attractive also on the outside through their heart and character. There is a man out there (I bet not only one but several) who would love everything about you, if he gets the chance to know you. You are beautiful!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-61455647895191908252012-10-02T11:53:35.592-05:002012-10-02T11:53:35.592-05:00Beautifully put Melissa. Whoever made that comment...Beautifully put Melissa. Whoever made that comment is a person who probably have yet to be on the receiving end of uplifting, positive, true, love. He/she needs to stop talking and start looking and listening to all good things that are around. I am with you on the crusade to not give up!!! Mayahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15016191973916474409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-84042702725549746492012-10-02T11:43:42.479-05:002012-10-02T11:43:42.479-05:00I think it is horribly sad that one person has so ...I think it is horribly sad that one person has so much poision in their body that they would feel the need to write that about anyone - but more over someone who they clearly do not know, on a blog that they are not forced to read and posted as anon. I really believe there is little beauty in such hateful people.<br />I have been reading your blog quite some time now and the positivity that feeds from it can only give us out here across the world some hope, escape and perspective. <br />You, as someone who does not know you, a greatly admired..<br /><br />Jenny<br />Scotland Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-13766320037604041602012-10-02T04:21:42.060-05:002012-10-02T04:21:42.060-05:00This all sounds really good, Melissa. But again, ...This all sounds really good, Melissa. But again, you're always "looking forward" to (somehow) meeting all these men who will fulfill all your (unrealistic) expectations. You need to take some sort of steps toward making this happen in reality (online dating profile? They're free on OkCupid), or you're going to spend the rest of your life "looking forward" to something that never actually happens. And that would be very sad, and a real waste of both you and the guy that could eventually be right for you. Tnoreply@blogger.com